Have you just figured out that you want to submit to a partner in a D/s relationship? Working on figuring out what being submissive means to you?
We’ve compiled several links from around our site that can help you learn more about submission and what it means to you.
Understanding Submission
Submission means something different to each person. There are as many ways to submit as there are submissives. But if you’re not sure what it means to you, the links below can help you figure that out.
What Does It Mean to Be Submissive?
How Do I Know if I’m a Submissive or a Bottom?
Types of Submission
As we’ve already said, there’s no single type of submissive that you can be. But you might know what your options are. Below are some options to explore to figure out if it’s the right fit for you…or not.
10 Different Types of Submission | Audio version
SAMs, Brats, and Sassy Submissives
Understanding the Caregiver/little Dynamic
Why Knowing Yourself Matters in Power Exchange
Kinky Titles are Different for All of Us
Things You Need to Know as a Submissive
Is this everything you will learn as a submissive? No. But these are the things we consider important, especially if you’re new to submission or navigating your first D/s relationship.
Can a Submissive Fulfill All of a Dominant’s Needs?
6 Ways to Feel Submissive When You’re Single
6 Things That Aren’t Topping from the Bottom
How to Be a Better Communicator
What is Your BDSM Safety Philosophy?
Bad Behavior and Red Flags from Submissives
Signs and Red Flags of a Bad Dominant
Following a Submissive’s Lead in Power Exchange
To read, watch, or listen to all of the things we’ve said about submissives, use this link. We also encourage you to visit our resources page where we list other sites, channels, and books that can help you grow as a submissive.
This page doesn’t include everything you could possibly learn about submission. You’re on a path, and these links will (hopefully) help you take a few steps in the right direction for you. As you move along your BDSM journey, you’ll learn more about yourself, your submission, and your kinky needs, and we hope this gives you a good place to begin.