Being Your Partner’s Safe Person
This week’s episode doesn’t focus on risk mitigation and safety practices in kink play. We’re talking about what it means to be safe for your partner emotionally, so they can be vulnerable with you...
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by Kayla Lords · Published November 4, 2026 · Last modified November 2, 2026
This week’s episode doesn’t focus on risk mitigation and safety practices in kink play. We’re talking about what it means to be safe for your partner emotionally, so they can be vulnerable with you...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 28, 2026 · Last modified October 27, 2026
This week, we’re answering questions asked on the kinky side of Reddit! In this episode: Today (October 28) is our wedding anniversary! Sub struggles with punishments Partner says he doesn’t want to Dom (CW:...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 21, 2026 · Last modified October 20, 2026
The title of this week’s episode is a “whoa” kind of question (at least to us). We discuss whether kink symbols (like collars) or subtle acts – that aren’t overtly kinky – mean that...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 14, 2026 · Last modified October 13, 2026
We’re very familiar with stressful events disrupting a power exchange relationships, but sometimes life just lifes. Someone online called it “vanilla creep,” and we agree. So let’s talk about what vanilla creep looks like...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 7, 2026 · Last modified October 6, 2026
This week, we’re answering your kinky questions asked on Instagram and Fetlife! In this episode: What inspired you to start your own kink podcast and selling handmade kinky items? I just got out of...
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