We help kinksters like you have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. No matter how you define BDSM and no matter what kind of kinky relationship you want, we’re here to help!
We are John Brownstone (the Dom) and Kayla Lords (the sub), a married D/s couple, sharing our thoughts, feelings, and experiences on this thing we call BDSM.
In our weekly podcast, we discuss all aspects of how to have a happy, healthy power exchange relationship.
You can watch the podcast during a weekly live stream, plus learn more about BDSM, check out product reviews, and more!
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The title of this week’s episode is a “whoa” kind of question (at least to us). We discuss whether kink symbols (like collars) or subtle acts – that aren’t overtly kinky – mean that...
We’re very familiar with stressful events disrupting a power exchange relationships, but sometimes life just lifes. Someone online called it “vanilla creep,” and we agree. So let’s talk about what vanilla creep looks like...
This week, we’re answering your kinky questions asked on Instagram and Fetlife! In this episode: What inspired you to start your own kink podcast and selling handmade kinky items? I just got out of...
I have no idea how to title this week’s episode, lol. But it’s a thing we kind of talked about in last week’s Reddit episode and a thing that we do in our power...
For our first episode back, we knew it needed to be a fun one! We’re reacting to the kinky side of Reddit this week! In this episode: Today’s the last day to get the...
This week’s episode from the archives discusses managing unfair expectations in your power exchange. The original episode was published in 2018. This is a stripped down version so no old intro, no announcements, and...
