Is Kink Being Normalized or Is It Just Going Viral?
This week, we look at some of the most recent viral trends that borrow from kink and ask, “Is kink becoming mainstream?” In this episode: Kinkery is having a Labor Day sale! Use code...
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Chaotically Answering Kink Questions from Our Inbox
After multiple weeks locked out of our own email inbox, we’re finally back in and celebrating by answering the questions that were waiting for us just like we would for our Monday Q&A episodes...
BDSM Reddit Response
This week, we’re responding to questions and situations from the kinky side of Reddit. In this episode: There’s still time to enter the podcast anniversary giveaway. Can a Dom “take away” a safeword? My...
It’s Our 10th Podcast Anniversary!
Somehow, someway, we’ve managed to keep the chaos going for exactly 10 years! In this week’s episode, we take a look at how we got here, then we do our “job” of helping folks...
Our Experience Using the Obedience App
We’ve spent the past couple of months using the free version of the Obedience app, and now we’re ready to share how we’ve used it and how it’s helped us. Spoiler: We like the...
Our Uneven, Non-Linear Return to Our D/s Life
This week’s episode is a “ripped from the pages of our life” kind of topic. We recently had a long conversation where Kayla shared some of what she needs as a submissive, but JB...
