Our D/s Life in 2025
We made a goal to reconnect and become more intentional in our power exchange this year. Now that we’re near the end of the year, let’s talk about how it went! In this episode:...
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Q&A: How is D/s Worth It if It’s So Difficult?
This week, we’re answering a question I (Kayla) couldn’t stop thinking about. We’re not sure if they asked in good faith or not, but we’re taking the question seriously. Here’s the question: Does any...
How to Achieve Your Kink Goals for 2026
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Q&A: How Do We Find the Right Amount of Intimacy?
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Last Minute Schedule Change
This probably seems really random, but we’re bringing you a quick “commercial” break to let you know our podcast/live stream plans for the week of Thanksgiving 2025. We hope you can join us on...
Bonus Section Episode
Even though YouTube doesn’t impact the podcast, what they do to our channel does impact our plans. That’s why this week’s episode is a bonus section episode, lol. In this episode: Join us for...
