Author: Kayla Lords

episode 255 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

Advocating for Yourself in BDSM

The word “advocacy” in terms of power exchange and BDSM has been on our minds a lot lately, so it’s time to do an episode about it. We used a non-kink list of how...

episode 253 of the Loving BDSM podcast on apology languages 0

Figuring Out Our Apology Language

We’ve talked about love languages before, and we’ve talked about making mistakes and needing to apologize. So imagine our delight when we discovered there’s a thing called an apology language (based on the 5...

episode 252 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

Fantasy vs Reality in D/s

We’ve said it many times but never really focused on it — the fantasy of D/s, kink, and BDSM can’t match the reality. That’s not a bad thing, unless you convince yourself you’re failing...

episode 251 of the Loving BDSM podcast 0

Going to Bed Angry

Most of us have heard the cliched advice, “Never go to bed angry!” Everyone has their own opinion and experience with arguments in relationships, including those late-night disagreements. We try not to go to...