Here at Loving BDSM, we included “loving” in our name for a couple of reasons. One has everything to do with loving D/s and other kinky relationships. A loving relationship isn’t always permanent, sexual, or something that includes a fairy tale ending. But the relationships we form with each other in D/s and BDSM are important.
This is where you’ll find blog posts on building better D/s relationships, navigating tough moments in your kinky relationship, and taking care of each other.
by Kayla Lords · Published October 21, 2026 · Last modified October 20, 2026
The title of this week’s episode is a “whoa” kind of question (at least to us). We discuss whether kink symbols (like collars) or subtle acts – that aren’t overtly kinky – mean that...
by Kayla Lords · Published October 14, 2026 · Last modified October 13, 2026
We’re very familiar with stressful events disrupting a power exchange relationships, but sometimes life just lifes. Someone online called it “vanilla creep,” and we agree. So let’s talk about what vanilla creep looks like...
In the final installment of our conflict in D/s series, we’re talking about what do to after you’ve resolved this conflict to learn from it and (hopefully) avoid future conflict. In this episode: Fundraiser...
In this week’s episode, we’re continuing our series on conflict on D/s and answering the question, “What do we do about it when it happens?” In this episode: No episode next week Friday night...
This week’s episode is the first in a series on dealing with conflict in your power exchange, and we’re talking about what can cause conflict. In this episode: New live stream time starts NEXT...
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