Dealing with Drop for Subs and Doms LB039

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  1. Joe says:

    I have been in the lifestyle for 3 years playing in public and private venues. I have 2 subs, one of which is on the way out of my life and the other is incoming with a collar of consideration. AKA very stressful time in my life.

    Anyways I want to thank you for the podcasts. Your dynamic is close enough to my own that it has been very helpful. In fact the episode 39 I hit today and I was in a “mood” that I didn’t understand. You reminded me that us Dom’s can have sub drop as well.

    Boy do I have it due a scene gone wrong, where while giving after care after a huge scene of impact, rope and rough sex LOL .. Dom thumping chest, good job Popa Smurf.. She then tell me, “I might be pregnant” Let me tell you there that was a buzz kill. I felt so betrayed that she didn’t inform me ahead of time, I have been feeling guilty as hell and that she violated my consent by not informing me of a health status. We been playing for 2 year…

    Anyways busted scene, lots of emotions for 2 days… Dom Drop

    The possible pregnancy was never the issue, it was communication. Sorry to ramble

    Anyways now that I recognize the issue, it has helped me deal with it a lot.

    Thank you


    • Kayla Lords says:

      I am so sorry you’re going through that but I’m glad you’ve gotten the reminder of what it could be. ((HUGS))

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