Category: Submissives

It’s not always easy knowing how to navigate your D/s relationship or the kink life as a submissive. Between predators, uneducated Dominants, and whatever societal expectations you may have been taught, it’s not always easy to know what to do, who to trust, or how to be your submissive self in a healthy way.

As the one who serves and gives up control, submissives are in a very vulnerable position. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be who you are or enjoy the D/s or BDSM life to the fullest. But you do need to educate yourself in order to stay safe. Here you’ll find articles geared specifically to submissives — to help you stay safe, help you navigate your D/s relationship in a healthy way, and help you be the best submissive you can be.

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Minisode 13: Submissive Red Flags

We’re baaaa-aaaaack with minisodes — shorter (for us) episodes to give you quick tips, information, and our thoughts on a bite-size BDSM topic. In many cases we’ve already talked about these in a longer...

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What is Submission? | 30 Days of D/s

We’re back with another post taken from our 30 Days of D/s program to answer another big question: What is submission? Much like the question on dominance, defining submission is inherently personal, and it...

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Reactive, Proactive, and Anticipatory Service

There are multiple ways of talking about submission, power exchange, and service (non-sexual and sexual). In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a workbook by Luna Carruthers entitled Submissive Reflection: A Journey of...