Being Your Partner’s Safe Person
This week’s episode doesn’t focus on risk mitigation and safety practices in kink play. We’re talking about what it means to be safe for your partner emotionally, so they can be vulnerable with you...
Category: Communication
Communication is one of the few requirements for a successful D/s relationship, BDSM experience, and kinky life. Without the ability to communicate, you can’t negotiate a power exchange or figure out what your partner wants and needs.
While communicate is interwoven into every topic we discuss, these are blog posts specifically about communication to help you grow in your D/s relationship and as a Dominant or submissive.
Submissives Using Signals to Communicate Desire
I have no idea how to title this week’s episode, lol. But it’s a thing we kind of talked about in last week’s Reddit episode and a thing that we do in our power...
Kink Terms Evolve
For better or worse, language changes over time — including the terms we use in kink. These are our chaotic, messy thoughts on those changes. In this episode: We’re no longer live streaming the...
Emotional Intelligence and Power Exchange
Emotional intelligence and emotional regulation is extremely important for communication and happy, healthy power exchange relationships. In this episode: Join our Patreon during the 2026 Membership Drive What is emotional intelligence? From HelpGuide.org: “your...
Love Maps and Power Exchange
The idea of love maps comes from the Gottman Institute in their studies on relationships, specifically marriage. We wondered if it could be applied to power exchange, too. In this episode: Join us through...
