15 Things I Used to Believe about BDSM and D/s
We all come to new parts of our life with preconceived notions of what things mean, assuming we’ve been exposed to the idea at all. BDSM wasn’t really in my vocabulary at all until...
Category: Submissives
Why Patience is Important in D/s
Patience. It’s a word often associated with a certain stereotype of Dominant (the patient “wolf”). Patience is also the one thing that a certain stereotype of submissive lacks (or so we’re all told). But...
3 Things I’ve Learned as a Sexual Submissive
I think I’ve been sexually submissive my entire adult life. Maybe even earlier, but since I didn’t start having sex until I turned 18, I don’t know for sure. By not understanding this part...
4 Ways to Get Into a Kinky Mindset
Vanilla life interferes with D/s and kink every chance it gets. Bills need to be paid. You have to go work. And let’s not even mention what parenting can do to your kinky life....
6 Ways to Feel Submissive When You’re Single
For many of us, being Dominant or submissive isn’t situational. It’s not just about the partner we have or the power exchange we negotiate. Whether we’re a Dom or a sub, it’s who we...
