Do You Have to Take a BDSM Test to Figure Out Your Kinks?
When you’re new to anything it’s easy to worry about whether you’re doing things “right” or not. Am I using the right label? Will I say the right thing? Is there a right way...
Category: Submissives
10 Different Types of Submission
A quick note before we jump into this: This isn’t a comprehensive list of every form of submission. That would take a long time to create and longer to read. Our list also shows...
Why We Need to Be Careful Who We Label a “Real” Dom or Sub
Can a submissive or Dominant be good? Yes. Can they be right for you? Maybe. What about “real” Doms or subs? Well, that’s where it gets problematic. Let’s get one thing straight: yes, there...
6 Red Flags From Submissives That Turn Off Dominants
Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, we turned this post into a mini-episode for the podcast that covers the same points below: Submissive Red Flags (minisode 13) We talk an awful...
They Both Were Subs: D/s in the Trans Community
Please help us welcome our first blog contributor to Loving BDSM, Julie Knispel. She brilliantly writes on the topic of trans women in the BDSM community and in D/s relationships. She takes on stereotypes...
