15 Things I Used to Believe about BDSM and D/s

5 Responses

  1. Chrisy says:

    I had many of the same misconceptions. I blame myself for not doing research. I also blame porn! How many BDSM port videos are in some pretty dark and dingy places. :-). The first person I met that had any knowledge was not the best representation. Looking back now I see that. I had visions of being on my knees and naked all the time as well. Currently not being in a D/s relationship I am still trying to determine what my next D/s relationship will look like. What I have learned is that it can look how I/we want it to look and it doesn’t have to be identical to what I had before. It can be better.

    • Kayla Lords says:

      I think a lot of us jump into BDSM without a lot of research. I certainly thought I knew what it was about too until I learned differently. And yes, you’re absolutely right — your next relationship can be whatever you both want it to be, which is the best part.

  2. Cdc says:

    While our sex was good…I needed something more and when my D thought about it, so did he.

  1. February 8, 2019

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