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Show of hands — who’s looked at a D/s relationship (or any other flavor of relationship) and thought, “Hashtag relationship goals!” I know I have. It’s easy to imagine what life will be like...

Shaving, the current Kink of the Week topic, has so many connotations. Maybe you see the word and you think of shaving your pubic hair. Or you think of beards. When I see the...

This week, we’re going back to a topic we’ve touched on in the past — parenting and BDSM. Instead of talking about how to get your kink on when you’ve got kids, let’s talk...

We all have our own comfort level when it comes to how much we want our children to know about our personal (sexual and kink) lives and what we believe should stay private. As...

If you’ve listened to the podcast, you’ve probably heard me say (a lot!) that I’m no fan of role play, while John Brownstone’s got some seriously steamy fantasies that he wishes I’d try with...

This week’s episode is a big topic to wrap our arms around, and there’s no way we could cover every aspect of this in one episode. But it’s a start. We have very simple...

Can a submissive or Dominant be good? Yes. Can they be right for you? Maybe. What about “real” Doms or subs? Well, that’s where it gets problematic. Let’s get one thing straight: yes, there...

“A top who has never had something go wrong in a scene has either been unbelievably lucky or has barely scened at all.” A friend said this to me once after we had witnessed...

It’s been a loooong time since we participated in Share Our Shit Saturday with the sex blogging community. But after reading so many great posts on kink, BDSM, and D/s this week, we’ve got...

When you see the term “red flags” in BDSM, most people immediately think of Dominants — the assholes, predators, posers, and uneducated kinksters. But that makes it seem like all submissives are perfect little...