Is it the Accent or the Person?
The latest Kink of the Week topic is all about voices, accents, and languages. The prompt asks whether they’re a kink of yours — why or why not. For me, accents can be sexy....
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What You Can and Can’t Say in a D/s Relationship LB130
Consider the topic/title of this week’s episode a bit tongue in cheek. Do we think there are things you never, ever say in a D/s relationship? Not really. But we discuss how we talk...
5 Things You Should Always Say or Hear in Your D/s Relationship
We keep our eyes on the search terms people use to find us here at Loving BDSM, as well as on our personal blogs. And someone searched “10 things to never say to a...
Why Difficult Conversations are Good for Your D/s Relationship LB129
A conversation with someone else made us think about an old topic in a new way. Difficult conversations aren’t new — in relationships or on the podcast. But this week, we’ll explore it from...
Why You Need to Say the Thing You’re Dreading
That thing you want to say but don’t think you should say? You know…the one that might hurt your partner’s feelings or dredge up bad tapes? Hell, maybe it’s going to make them angry....
The Basics of Tail Butt Plugs
Disclosure: Affiliate links are included in this post. When you click on a link and make a purchase, we make a small commission. This helps us continue to make helpful content and fuels our...
What is Your BDSM Safety Philosophy? LB128
This week we’re talking about staying safe in BDSM, thanks to a topic suggestion from Little Rara. She asked us to discuss SSC, RACK, and PRICK. Earlier this week, we discussed the basics of...
Safety in BDSM: Understanding SSC, RACK, and PRICK
As much fun as BDSM can be — in or out of a D/s relationship — it’s also inherently risky. We fuck with each other’s minds and bodies in ways that take us to...
Dom Drop and Aftercare LB127
We sent out a request for topic ideas specific to Dominants and Twitter delivered. Thanks to DomSigns (our friend and tech savior) for giving us the idea to discuss Dom drop and aftercare for...
3 Reasons Why Dom Drop Happens | 30 Days of D/s
We should probably get one thing out of the way. Subs aren’t the only kinksters who can drop after a scene, kinky fuckery, or just some intense D/s…stuff. Dom drop is very real. And...
