Q&A: How Do I Know if I’m a Submissive or a Bottom?
Do you wonder whether you’re a submissive or a bottom? Has someone told you that you’re more one than the other? This is such a tricky question because, like all things, the answer is...
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15 Things I Used to Believe about BDSM and D/s
We all come to new parts of our life with preconceived notions of what things mean, assuming we’ve been exposed to the idea at all. BDSM wasn’t really in my vocabulary at all until...
Why Patience is Important in D/s
Patience. It’s a word often associated with a certain stereotype of Dominant (the patient “wolf”). Patience is also the one thing that a certain stereotype of submissive lacks (or so we’re all told). But...
Understanding Sexual Submission
Sexual submission is a huge part of our D/s relationship. While we know sex isn’t part of every power exchange, for many people, it’s central to it. It’s unique to all of us, but...
What 24/7 D/s Means to Us
We talk about being 24/7 D/s in nearly every episode we record, because it’s who we are. But we’ve never really talked about what it means to us. It’s pretty simple, but it’s also...
