5 Secrets You Might Have in a D/s Relationship
Of course every D/s relationship is different, as is every communication style, power dynamic, and the things that make it work between you and another person. So if you read the title and thought,...
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What You Can and Can’t Say in a D/s Relationship LB130
Consider the topic/title of this week’s episode a bit tongue in cheek. Do we think there are things you never, ever say in a D/s relationship? Not really. But we discuss how we talk...
5 Things You Should Always Say or Hear in Your D/s Relationship
We keep our eyes on the search terms people use to find us here at Loving BDSM, as well as on our personal blogs. And someone searched “10 things to never say to a...
Why Difficult Conversations are Good for Your D/s Relationship LB129
A conversation with someone else made us think about an old topic in a new way. Difficult conversations aren’t new — in relationships or on the podcast. But this week, we’ll explore it from...
Why You Need to Say the Thing You’re Dreading
That thing you want to say but don’t think you should say? You know…the one that might hurt your partner’s feelings or dredge up bad tapes? Hell, maybe it’s going to make them angry....
