Figuring Out Your Kinky Self
In this week’s episode, we’re taking a question we received in a previous Q&A and expanding it to a full conversation. The question: How do I figure out my kink style and identity? These...
BDSM Questions / Dominant / Episodes / Submissives
by Kayla Lords · Published March 3, 2023 · Last modified March 2, 2023
In this week’s episode, we’re taking a question we received in a previous Q&A and expanding it to a full conversation. The question: How do I figure out my kink style and identity? These...
This week, we’re talking about anger, upset, and other negative feelings specifically in terms of submission. How do you submit when you’re angry at your Dom? The answer is…it depends. In this episode: Want...
D/s Relationships / Episodes / Submissives
by Kayla Lords · Published August 5, 2022 · Last modified August 4, 2022
We (kind of) get where this question comes from — submissives are seen to bend to the will of their Dominant partner, submissive training and behavior modification are tools used in some D/s relationships....
Subspace is just one experience submissives can have during a kink scene. As we’ve discussed before, subspace isn’t a guarantee for every scene, and some people may never even get there. So let’s talk...
by Kayla Lords · Published February 18, 2022 · Last modified February 17, 2022
This week, we’re talking about our experience during Kayla’s recovery from surgery – a time when she wasn’t able to be her service submissive self in her usual way. We share how we both...
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