Video Series: 5 Things You Need to Know
I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Lean in close for this one…. We (okay, I) talk a lot. Shocking, right?! All kidding aside, we specialize in long conversations, and we...
Category: Dominant
15 Things I Used to Believe about BDSM and D/s
We all come to new parts of our life with preconceived notions of what things mean, assuming we’ve been exposed to the idea at all. BDSM wasn’t really in my vocabulary at all until...
Why Patience is Important in D/s
Patience. It’s a word often associated with a certain stereotype of Dominant (the patient “wolf”). Patience is also the one thing that a certain stereotype of submissive lacks (or so we’re all told). But...
4 Ways to Get Into a Kinky Mindset
Vanilla life interferes with D/s and kink every chance it gets. Bills need to be paid. You have to go work. And let’s not even mention what parenting can do to your kinky life....
6 Reasons Why Being Consistent Matters in Your D/s Relationship
If you’ve listened to a few podcast episodes, you’ve heard John Brownstone mention one word a few times — consistency. It’s one of his core beliefs as a Dominant and an indicator of how...
