13 Things New Dominants Need to Know
If we tried to write a totally comprehensive list of everything a new Dominant needs to know, we’d be here for a while. So consider this a “top 13” kind of list. Getting these...
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4 Things D/s Won’t Magically Fix In Your Relationship
Dominance and submission (D/s) can enhance your relationship, take your desire and confidence to new levels, help you grow as an individual and in your relationship, and do a lot of things short of...
6 Ways Submissives Can Support Their Dominants in Tough Situations
In the BDSM world, at least our corner of it, we spend a lot of time talking about what Dominants can and should do for their submissives. That makes sense. Many submissives have consensual...
Do You Have to Take a BDSM Test to Figure Out Your Kinks?
When you’re new to anything it’s easy to worry about whether you’re doing things “right” or not. Am I using the right label? Will I say the right thing? Is there a right way...
Why We Need to Be Careful Who We Label a “Real” Dom or Sub
Can a submissive or Dominant be good? Yes. Can they be right for you? Maybe. What about “real” Doms or subs? Well, that’s where it gets problematic. Let’s get one thing straight: yes, there...
