15 Things I Used to Believe about BDSM and D/s
We all come to new parts of our life with preconceived notions of what things mean, assuming we’ve been exposed to the idea at all. BDSM wasn’t really in my vocabulary at all until...
Category: Communication
I Forgot to Focus On Our D/s Relationship
At the end of 2018, as part of a bigger conversation about 2019, John Brownstone asked me, “What would you like to do differently in our D/s next year? What new things would you...
3 Conversations We’ve Had With Our Kids about Sex and Kink
We all have our own comfort level when it comes to how much we want our children to know about our personal (sexual and kink) lives and what we believe should stay private. As...
5 Secrets You Might Have in a D/s Relationship
Of course every D/s relationship is different, as is every communication style, power dynamic, and the things that make it work between you and another person. So if you read the title and thought,...
5 Things You Should Always Say or Hear in Your D/s Relationship
We keep our eyes on the search terms people use to find us here at Loving BDSM, as well as on our personal blogs. And someone searched “10 things to never say to a...
