Podcast Minisode 8: How to Show Gratitude
Gratitude is a big deal to both of us. It helps keep resentment at bay and makes it easier to take care of each other, even in times of stress or when we just...
Category: Communication
Our Top Tips for BDSM Communication
We talk about communication ALL THE TIME, but rarely in one episode. This definitely isn’t everything, but if you struggle with communication, this may help you out a bit. In this episode: Announcement: Friday...
BDSM Basics: 5 Tips About Negotiation in BDSM
Check out a new thing we’re doing — BDSM Basics. We’ve been sharing “5 Things You Should Know” videos on YouTube, and we’re going to share them here, too, but with text for people...
Q&A: I Have a Hard Time Asking My Dominant for What I Want
We know, from experience, that when one kinkster has a question, others can benefit from the answer. Going forward, we’ll answer the questions we receive in a blog post or podcast episode, so everyone...
Reasons You May Say “No” in a D/s Relationship
Two things to get out of the way immediately. No is a complete sentence. It does not require anything else. Just…no. Second, no is complicated in a power exchange that’s predicated on one partner...
