BDSM Basics: 5 Tips About Negotiation in BDSM
Check out a new thing we’re doing — BDSM Basics. We’ve been sharing “5 Things You Should Know” videos on YouTube, and we’re going to share them here, too, but with text for people...
Category: Communication
Q&A: I Have a Hard Time Asking My Dominant for What I Want
We know, from experience, that when one kinkster has a question, others can benefit from the answer. Going forward, we’ll answer the questions we receive in a blog post or podcast episode, so everyone...
Reasons You May Say “No” in a D/s Relationship
Two things to get out of the way immediately. No is a complete sentence. It does not require anything else. Just…no. Second, no is complicated in a power exchange that’s predicated on one partner...
Apologies and D/s Relationships
Most of us know that at some point in life, we’re going to be sorry for the way we’ve acted or something we’ve said. The first step in making it right is to apologize....
Book Review: Tongue Tied by Stella Harris
*We received Tongue Tied by Stella Harris in exchange for an honest review. Affiliate links are included in this post. When I know I’m going to read a book on a topic I frequently...
