Reasons You May Say “No” in a D/s Relationship
Two things to get out of the way immediately. No is a complete sentence. It does not require anything else. Just…no. Second, no is complicated in a power exchange that’s predicated on one partner...
Category: Communication
Apologies and D/s Relationships
Most of us know that at some point in life, we’re going to be sorry for the way we’ve acted or something we’ve said. The first step in making it right is to apologize....
Book Review: Tongue Tied by Stella Harris
*We received Tongue Tied by Stella Harris in exchange for an honest review. Affiliate links are included in this post. When I know I’m going to read a book on a topic I frequently...
15 Things I Used to Believe about BDSM and D/s
We all come to new parts of our life with preconceived notions of what things mean, assuming we’ve been exposed to the idea at all. BDSM wasn’t really in my vocabulary at all until...
I Forgot to Focus On Our D/s Relationship
At the end of 2018, as part of a bigger conversation about 2019, John Brownstone asked me, “What would you like to do differently in our D/s next year? What new things would you...
