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When you hear the word “fear” what comes to mind? Is it past trauma or future worries? Are you afraid of spiders or snakes? Many people enter into a D/s relationship — or at...

You’re in a long distance D/s relationship, and you’ve got weeks or months to go until the next visit. The wait feels impossibly long, and you’re not sure you can handle it. Even when...

We’re back from hiatus, and so freaking glad to be back. So glad, in fact, that it’s like we forgot how to plan an episode and then make it. Which means we took the...

Are Dominants and submissives born or are they made? I have no freaking clue. I can see an argument for both sides — some people inherently feel a desire to dominate or submit while...

As of today, we’ve been in our new home for 13 days. Just under two weeks. And in that time, we’ve unpacked, we’ve stressed out, and we’ve started learning new routines. The hardest change...

In 2018, we had our first ElectraStim demo during Eroticon. We each held a small sex toy hooked up to the stimulation unit (imagine a fancy TENS unit). Then we were told to touch...

It’s our last episode before we take a break to move, so we made it easy on ourselves. We’re answering the questions asked on social media. We cover all kinds of topics from the...

Most of us know that at some point in life, we’re going to be sorry for the way we’ve acted or something we’ve said. The first step in making it right is to apologize....

This week, we have no topic to discuss because, to be honest, we’re freaking exhausted. So we turned on the mics and started talking. We did have a few things we wanted to touch...

Someone recently asked, “What do I do if my Dominant wants me to lose weight?” This type of question gets asked a lot…just replace “lose weight” with something else…cut my hair, shave my genitals,...