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A conversation with John Brownstone to help manage our expectations of the upcoming sale of our home led to this idea. It’s easy to have a picture in your mind of what you want...

*We received Tongue Tied by Stella Harris in exchange for an honest review. Affiliate links are included in this post. When I know I’m going to read a book on a topic I frequently...

Many of us might yearn for a life where we decide things will happen, and then they just do…as if by magic. But in the real world, we only get the healthy D/s relationship...

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Content warning: we very briefly touch on anger in abusive situations and the way that anger can trigger negative reactions in ourselves. If today isn’t the day for you to hear about that, skip...

March 2022 Update: 30 Days of D/s is on temporary hold while it goes through updates and format changes. You want to know what’s great about a community (kink or otherwise)? Good ideas can...

This week, we took topic ideas from our kinky patrons on Patreon, and several asked questions about what Dominants are thinking about at different times. Since we can’t speak for all Dominants, we decided...

The last time we shared our latest video series, it was a brand new thing, and we were just getting warmed up. Several weeks in, and we’re loving these short videos that (hopefully) pack...

Things got wiiiiiiiild when we came back from London, so of course we’re going to talk about it. You may one day be shamed or judged for your kinks or the things you’re into....

John Brownstone and I have been reminded recently just how important our kinky and sex blogging community are to us. We’ve been made to feel outcast, forgotten, unloved, and misunderstood by a vanilla world...