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A lot of kinksters have valid reasons to separate their kink and vanilla lives.  For some, being outed would be detrimental to their careers.  For others, it could cause a rift in the family....

In episode 167, we take help from a kinky patron’s suggestion. Cdc asked if you can visit BDSM dungeons in other cities and areas when you travel. And if you do, how that might...

As much as I wish it weren’t so, our D/s relationship can’t, won’t, and doesn’t fix everything. What I mean by that is that the power exchange of John Brownstone making decisions and me...

If you’ve listened to any  of our podcast episodes or watched any videos, you know I have a tendency to have lots of ideas. But since many of them now involve John Brownstone, I...

This week after a unique experience in our local BDSM dungeon, we’re talking about how having a different experience during a kinky scene than what you expect to have — including what your thinking...

Please help us welcome guest contributor, The Bonny Sub, to the blog today. She’s sharing her journey with both excruciating chronic pain and her new BDSM journey and the lessons to be found in...

This week’s topic comes straight from one of our kinky patrons — RaxLeanne! She shared her experience of repressing her kinky self in her relationship, and how it didn’t work out well. John Brownstone...

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Lean in close for this one…. We (okay, I) talk a lot. Shocking, right?! All kidding aside, we specialize in long conversations, and we...

A big thank you to our kinky patron, Cdc, for this week’s topic. We were asked a series of questions about things we used to think or believe about BDSM and D/s, as well...

We all come to new parts of our life with preconceived notions of what things mean, assuming we’ve been exposed to the idea at all. BDSM wasn’t really in my vocabulary at all until...