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What is mutual masturbation? For us, it’s the act of masturbating together, whether or not we’re touching each other at the same time. We can masturbate in separate rooms and be connected by technology....

When you hear the word “strength,” what comes to mind? All kinds of things, probably. This week, we’re taking you on our winding conversation through what it means to be strong as a submissive,...

I’m not sure exactly when I realized I was a masochist but I always knew that I had an unusually high tolerance for pain. I was that kid that poked my bruises, licked my...

It might seem strange for a notoriously impatient person (Kayla, here!) to tell everyone else to be patient, but the world is a strange place. Also, in D/s relationships and new kinky experiences, patience...

Patience. It’s a word often associated with a certain stereotype of Dominant (the patient “wolf”). Patience is also the one thing that a certain stereotype of submissive lacks (or so we’re all told). But...

We’ve said it before, and we’ll say it again…anything can be kinky, and there are multiple ways to get kinky — with any single item. Thanks to inspiration from this week’s Kink of the...

Sexual submission is a huge part of our D/s relationship. While we know sex isn’t part of every power exchange, for many people, it’s central to it. It’s unique to all of us, but...

I think I’ve been sexually submissive my entire adult life. Maybe even earlier, but since I didn’t start having sex until I turned 18, I don’t know for sure. By not understanding this part...

For us, sex is very much part of our D/s relationship. All forms of sex. Even those rare occasions when we indulge in slow, sweet lovemaking, there is no doubt who has control. But...

We’re back with our first episode of 2019! And it’s an intensely personal one…about the moment one of us (ahem, me) lost focus on our D/s relationship. We walk about why it happened, what...