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We’re back for another week of showing some kinky love to bloggers out there talking about kink in different ways. In the first issue of Showing Kinky Love, I told you there’d be a...

Thanksgiving is just under a week away, and we’ve personally got a lot to be thankful for – our audience, our friends and family, and each other. Gratitude is necessary in every relationship –...

Being kind to each other and showing gratitude to your partner isn’t a kink or vanilla thing, it’s a human one. But because our roles in D/s can be very clearly defined, we can...

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In my mind “sex blogging” is something very specific – blogging about sex (duh, right?) but on a personal level or an extremely smutty one. I often think of it that way because it’s...

This week we talk about how to handle the end of your D/s relationship when you’re the one choosing to walk away. We don’t spend a lot of time on the reasons why you...

It doesn’t matter how the relationship ends, if it was something you wanted and hoped would work, you’re going to be upset and need time to deal with your emotions. Whether you walked away...

Some fantasies are steamy and kinky in your head. The reality? Not so much. We all have something we imagine doing that we don’t really want to do or, when we try, doesn’t and...

In episode 106, we discuss that moment a Dominant says no – whether for the first time or the 100th. It’s a big responsibility for both partners and requires communication, trust, and honesty –...

In light of the outpouring of love and interest we received – and to get back to normal by Friday’s episode – we decided to publish a special bonus episode all about the wedding....