The Difference Between Dom and Sub vs Top and Bottom
We get asked all the time what the difference between a dominant and submissive vs a top and bottom is. We’re not claiming to have all the answers, and labels are inherently personal. At...
Category: Submissives
Q&A: How Do I Stop Feeling Nervous About Submitting to My Dominant?
For first-time submissives or even those entering a D/s relationship after a break (or a break-up), I think it’s normal to feel nervous. Especially if you’ve had to spend any time of your life...
Q&A: What’s the Difference Between a Little and a Babygirl?
I identify as a babygirl and often discuss being a little as a spectrum. Though I use the term “babygirl” for myself I believe it applies to baby boys, too. I don’t pretend to...
Q&A: I Have a Hard Time Asking My Dominant for What I Want
We know, from experience, that when one kinkster has a question, others can benefit from the answer. Going forward, we’ll answer the questions we receive in a blog post or podcast episode, so everyone...
3 Real Questions People Ask Google About Dominants, Submissives, and D/s
I often comb through the search terms people use to find this website and my personal blog, KaylaLords.com. It’s always interesting, but some terms offer serious insight into people’s views on, concerns about, and...
