How I Deal With No Libido as a Sexual Submissive
I don’t know if “libido” is the correct word (a thing I saw from a sex educator recently indicated it might not be) but I think it’s a term most of us recognize and...
Category: Submissives
BDSM Basics: BDSM Titles and Labels
Few topics get people heated like the different titles and labels we use in BDSM. As they’re inherently personal, kinksters often have strong opinions on using the “right” label. While words have literal definitions,...
Can a Submissive Fulfill All a Dominants Needs?
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Independent Submissives: Earning Trust and Navigating D/s Relationships
What it means to be independent is as unique to each of us as what it means to be submissive. But for anyone trying to win the affection, trust, and submission of a person...
BDSM Basics: 5 Things You Need to Know About Subfrenzy
For those who identify as submissive, think back to your first D/s relationship (or your early days of submission). Did you ever find yourself acting out of character, lacking patience and wanting to do...
