Why Knowing Yourself Matters in Power Exchange
Pardon the rambly episode this week. The idea of “know thyself” and what that can look like, how people express their identities, and why it’s important to power exchange is a massive topic. We...
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by Kayla Lords · Published March 5, 2021 · Last modified April 1, 2021
Pardon the rambly episode this week. The idea of “know thyself” and what that can look like, how people express their identities, and why it’s important to power exchange is a massive topic. We...
by Kayla Lords · Published September 11, 2020 · Last modified November 16, 2020
There are multiple ways of talking about submission, power exchange, and service (non-sexual and sexual). In this week’s episode, we take inspiration from a workbook by Luna Carruthers entitled Submissive Reflection: A Journey of...
It’s easy to feel like every submissive in every D/s relationship crawls or kneels, in their kinky fuckery or as a sign of submission. This isn’t true for a variety of reasons, including because...
Is this list exhaustive? No. Does it explain every nuance of submission on the entire spectrum of a power exchange? Also no. But for anyone who believes there’s only “one way” to be a...
by Kayla Lords · Published February 28, 2020 · Last modified February 27, 2020
How did it take us 200-plus episodes to FINALLY discuss smart-ass masochists (SAMs), brats, and sassy submissives? We don’t know either! But here we are! In this episode: Subscribe to our newsletter! What is...
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