Q&A: Can I Give Up My Kinky Nature to Be With a Vanilla Partner?
We received a question that I don’t actually have a clear answer to, partly because I don’t think there’s ever a clear answer to this one, but it’s worth think about: Can you go...
BDSM Questions / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published January 20, 2020 · Last modified January 19, 2020
We received a question that I don’t actually have a clear answer to, partly because I don’t think there’s ever a clear answer to this one, but it’s worth think about: Can you go...
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D/s Relationships / Dominant / Submissives
by Kayla Lords · Published January 6, 2020 · Last modified January 5, 2020
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BDSM Basics / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published December 16, 2019 · Last modified December 13, 2019
Power exchange is the big term we use for Dominance and submission, Master/slave, Caregiver/little, and even top and bottom. The definition is in the phrase: power and control are exchanged between partners with one...
D/s Relationships / Kinky Fuckery / Video Reviews
by Kayla Lords · Published December 9, 2019 · Last modified February 15, 2020
If you’ve been following the podcast in recent episodes, you’ve likely heard us mention BDSMContracts.org. They sponsored a couple of episodes, but before we knew them, we linked to them as a potential resource...
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