BDSM Basics: Vetting a New Partner
“Vetting a new partner” means making sure they are who they say they are and doing your best to make sure they’re safe. It’s an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too...
Category: D/s Relationships
Love and D/s Relationships
Since this episode goes live on Valentine’s Day 2020, we thought it was time to talk about love as it relates to D/s relationships. We’re not offering tips or objective information. These are our...
Holding Each Other Accountable in D/s Relationships
Accountability looks different for all of us, but ultimately, it’s making sure that everyone involved in your D/s relationship does what they say they will — and if they (or you) don’t, you deal...
Micromanagement vs 24/7 D/s
Let’s be very clear and set expectations up front — we’re not giving a lesson on how to add micromanagement to your power exchange. We’re not qualified to do that, although we know it’s...
Q&A: Can I Give Up My Kinky Nature to Be With a Vanilla Partner?
We received a question that I don’t actually have a clear answer to, partly because I don’t think there’s ever a clear answer to this one, but it’s worth think about: Can you go...
