Approaching Partners with Ideas Not Expectations
Editor’s note: Please welcome Quenby (they/them) to the blog to discuss something a lot of us have faced this year in our own way — figuring out how to navigate our kinky relationships while...
At Loving BDSM, we have our own unique, individual perspectives on D/s, kink, and BDSM. But our way isn’t the only way, and we can’t experience everything. So we welcome contributors who would like to share their stories. We have writer guidelines to help you know how the process works and to give you an idea of the topics we’d like writers to cover.
While we accept pitches from any one — bloggers, freelance writers, or anyone with a story to tell — we’re most interested in the D/s and BDSM stories and perspectives from people who aren’t like us (white, cis, male Dom/female sub). And if you want to read other perspectives on D/s relationships and the BDSM life, these are the posts to start with.
by Kayla Lords · Published December 19, 2020 · Last modified December 18, 2020
Editor’s note: Please welcome Quenby (they/them) to the blog to discuss something a lot of us have faced this year in our own way — figuring out how to navigate our kinky relationships while...
Contributors / D/s Relationships
by Kayla Lords · Published March 2, 2020 · Last modified March 1, 2020
Content warning: While Amy doesn’t discuss abuse in detail within the post, the topic clearly touches on it. Take care of yourself first and foremost. Read this when and if you’re up for it....
A lot of kinksters have valid reasons to separate their kink and vanilla lives. For some, being outed would be detrimental to their careers. For others, it could cause a rift in the family....
Please help us welcome guest contributor, The Bonny Sub, to the blog today. She’s sharing her journey with both excruciating chronic pain and her new BDSM journey and the lessons to be found in...
I’m not sure exactly when I realized I was a masochist but I always knew that I had an unusually high tolerance for pain. I was that kid that poked my bruises, licked my...
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