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How Discovering Kink Made Me Feel

In some ways, looking back, I think the spark of kink was always in me. Discovering my kinky side wasn’t a straight line from there to here, and it wasn’t always easy. I got...

The Importance of Community

The Importance of Community LB079

Back for episode 79, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss the importance of the kinky community. Plus hear more about the new website and the online Loving BDSM community! In this episode: Is the...

5 Reasons to Join a Kinky Community

5 Reasons to Join a Kinky Community

Image Credit: Pixabay When someone asks me, “Where do I meet a Dominant?” or “Where do I go to learn how to do bondage or cupping or…” (pick a kinky thing, any kinky thing,)...

Is BDSM Good For Your Mental Health? LB077

Is BDSM Good For Your Mental Health? LB077

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are together again for episode 77 and they’re taking on a big topic: BDSM and mental health. Consider this the first of what will certainly be many conversations about...

Orgasm Control in D/s Relationships LB076

Orgasm Control in D/s Relationships LB076

John Brownstone is back with Kayla this week for a new episode! There may have been squeeing. This week’s topic is all about orgasm control. In this episode: I’m giving away a Crescendo vibrator...

Listener Questions Answered LB075

Listener Questions Answered LB075

Kayla Lords is by herself for another week in episode 75. This time, she’s answering questions received from listeners. In this episode: Get your kinky fuckery on with the Unbound Kinky Gift Guide thru...

We All Have Multiple Layers LB074

We All Have Multiple Layers LB074

Kayla Lords is by herself in episode 74. This week’s topic is a bit personal and multi-layered – which is kind of the point. In this episode: I’ve got a new book out! Sir...

Oral Sex in D/s Relationships LB073

Oral Sex in D/s Relationships LB073

For episode 73, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone took on a fun (and weirdly, sometimes a controversial topic) – oral sex in a D/s relationship. Yes, Dominants can give oral sex to their partners!...