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There’s not a thing wrong with admiring other kinky relationships. We know quite a few people who we think have great chemistry, and we love being around them. But there are problems when we...

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I struggled with what to title this week’s episode. Primarily because I mostly want to say, “UGH, don’t do THESE things! EVER!” But that’s not very descriptive is it? This week’s episode was inspired...

I identify as a babygirl and often discuss being a little as a spectrum. Though I use the term “babygirl” for myself I believe it applies to baby boys, too. I don’t pretend to...

We’ve gotten a LOT of requests to talk about praise kinks, but we’d prefer to talk about the importance of praise and affirmation in D/s relationships. But don’t worry, we’ve got the hook-up for...

Check out a new thing we’re doing — BDSM Basics. We’ve been sharing “5 Things You Should Know” videos on YouTube, and we’re going to share them here, too, but with text for people...

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We’re baaaaa-aaaaaack! And so happy to be recording again! This week, we talked about dealing with disappointing your partner in a D/s relationship — from a submissive AND a Dominant perspective. In this episode:...

No one is shocked that stress impacts our D/s relationships. Of course it happens, but that doesn’t mean we always handle it well — or that our D/s relationship won’t bend under the strain....