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Listen to one podcast episode (or watch a video), and you know that John Brownstone and I laugh a LOT. Part of it has to do with being happy, but part of it is...

Forgiveness is a big topic and a sticky one. There are no right answers about when or if you should forgive a partner or whether a relationship can be saved. But one thing is...

We know, from experience, that when one kinkster has a question, others can benefit from the answer. Going forward, we’ll answer the questions we receive in a blog post or podcast episode, so everyone...

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Everyone has needs and everyone in a relationship has needs. Only you can decide which of those needs is most important, but in D/s if anyone tries to convince you your needs are unimportant,...

(Some) Dominants want to protect their partner, and (some) submissives want to take care of their partner. But when you have to be apart — either temporarily or as part of a long distance...

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This is kind of a weird one. It can be an overwhelmingly fun experience and an opportunity for growth when you do something your partner enjoys that you wouldn’t necessarily choose for yourself. On...

I often comb through the search terms people use to find this website and my personal blog, KaylaLords.com. It’s always interesting, but some terms offer serious insight into people’s views on, concerns about, and...

This week, we did something a little different. We’ve been overwhelmed (in a good way) with a lot of listener questions, and there just isn’t enough time in the day to answer everyone. So...