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For those who identify as submissive, think back to your first D/s relationship (or your early days of submission). Did you ever find yourself acting out of character, lacking patience and wanting to do...

We get asked all the time what the difference between a dominant and submissive vs a top and bottom is. We’re not claiming to have all the answers, and labels are inherently personal. At...

For first-time submissives or even those entering a D/s relationship after a break (or a break-up), I think it’s normal to feel nervous. Especially if you’ve had to spend any time of your life...

This week’s episode was recorded on Kayla’s 40th birthday so it seemed appropriate to talk about getting older when you’re kinky. (Yes, I know, 40 isn’t old, but it’s still a milestone, mkay?) In...

Disclaimer: We received the Hipster in exchange for an honest review. Affiliate links are also included — this means if you click a link and make a purchase, we make a small commission which...

A big thanks to our kinky patron, Cdc, for suggesting this week’s topic — the subtle side of Dominance and submission. What (we think) we mean by that is that the longer you’re together,...

Not every kinky person will venture out of their bedroom to play in a BDSM dungeon or attend a private play party. But those who do often have a lot of questions, concerns, and...

Being afraid (or overly cautious) about change is extremely common. Some people just don’t handle change well, while others want to feel in control of the changes that happen to them. We received a...

Disclosure: All books were received in exchange for a review. Affiliate links are included in this post. If you click a link and make a purchase, we make a small commission which supports our...

I often tell the story of how John Brownstone laughed his ass off the first time I asked him if he might be a Daddy Dom. Of course, we figured out that he was...