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We geek out over setting goals, achieving them, and making progress on the things we want to do in life. And yes, that includes in our D/s relationship and our kinky fuckery. Even if...

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What it means to be independent is as unique to each of us as what it means to be submissive. But for anyone trying to win the affection, trust, and submission of a person...

So there I am, looking around for a blog post topic, and what do I find but the current Kink of the Week topic on fisting. For people who enjoy penetration, fisting can present...

For those who identify as submissive, think back to your first D/s relationship (or your early days of submission). Did you ever find yourself acting out of character, lacking patience and wanting to do...

We get asked all the time what the difference between a dominant and submissive vs a top and bottom is. We’re not claiming to have all the answers, and labels are inherently personal. At...

For first-time submissives or even those entering a D/s relationship after a break (or a break-up), I think it’s normal to feel nervous. Especially if you’ve had to spend any time of your life...

This week’s episode was recorded on Kayla’s 40th birthday so it seemed appropriate to talk about getting older when you’re kinky. (Yes, I know, 40 isn’t old, but it’s still a milestone, mkay?) In...