6 Reactions You Might Experience in a BDSM Scene
Let’s start off with a few points of clarification on this one. One: Not everyone has a big reaction (emotional or otherwise) during their BDSM scene or kinky fuckery. And that’s okay. You can...
Author: Kayla Lords
4 Risks We’ve Taken in BDSM — Before and After We Knew Better
For some people, risky sex is hot as hell. It turns them on, makes the sex better, and makes them feel alive. For people like me (who live in a near constant state of...
Supporting Dominants Through Tough Moments LB144
Everyone (on either side of the slash) goes through tough moments. In a power exchange, it can be difficult to know how to help or what to do when you’re a submissive. This doesn’t...
6 Ways Submissives Can Support Their Dominants in Tough Situations
In the BDSM world, at least our corner of it, we spend a lot of time talking about what Dominants can and should do for their submissives. That makes sense. Many submissives have consensual...
Assumptions and Communication in D/s Relationships LB143
This week’s topic isn’t exactly new, but we received enough messages with a common theme that we decided to talk about it again. It’s normal to make assumptions in life — even in D/s....
