Tagged: trust

episode 131 of Loving BDSM podcast talks about secrets in D/s relationships 2

Secrets in a D/s Relationship LB131

When we put out the call for topic suggestions a few weeks ago, Chloe Dare asked us to talk about whether you can have secrets in a D/s relationship. It’s a good question, and,...

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How to Build Each Other Up in a D/s Relationship

I’m never completely sure why D/s relationships and the BDSM lifestyle are treated as if they’re completely divorced from reality. Our roles are clearly outlined; consent is required; and it only works when everyone...

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Topping from the Bottom LB090

We didn’t know a lot of people had feelings about this topic until we mentioned in on the blog and on Twitter. Episode 90 focuses on topping from the bottom – what it is,...

5 Ways Insecurities Impact Your D/s Relationship 3

5 Ways Insecurities Impact D/s Relationships

Being insecure about something isn’t necessarily a problem. If those feelings propel you to improve yourself, find contentment, or learn more about yourself, insecurities can actually help you grow. The problem for most of...