Friendship in Long Term Power Exchange
WE’ve said for years that we think friendship needs to be the basis of any power exchange but certainly a long-term relationship. This week we’re talking about why it matters and how to build...
by Kayla Lords · Published January 23, 2026 · Last modified April 22, 2026
WE’ve said for years that we think friendship needs to be the basis of any power exchange but certainly a long-term relationship. This week we’re talking about why it matters and how to build...
by Kayla Lords · Published January 5, 2026 · Last modified January 9, 2026
A kinkster hasn’t had a great time with a kinky friend, but they miss the friendship they had at one time. Here’s the question: My question is related to BDSM but it’s about a...
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by Kayla Lords · Published October 31, 2025 · Last modified October 30, 2025
The idea of love maps comes from the Gottman Institute in their studies on relationships, specifically marriage. We wondered if it could be applied to power exchange, too. In this episode: Join us through...
by Kayla Lords · Published March 13, 2020 · Last modified March 12, 2020
This week’s topic was inspired by a conversation with one of our kinky patrons who decided to focus on friends in the kink community while she’s single. While “friends first” isn’t a requirement for...
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