Can a Submissive Fulfill All a Dominants Needs?
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A Big Ole Bonus Section
It’s episode 201, the last one before the holidays, and the last one before we take a couple of weeks off. So we took the easy way out and made this a giant bonus...
3 Lessons We’ve Learned Playing at BDSM Dungeons
John Brownstone and I make no secret of the fact that we love playing in BDSM dungeons and clubs. Wherever we’ve lived, we’ve sought out the club, joined, and done our best to go...
BDSM Basics: 5 Things About Power Exchange
Power exchange is the big term we use for Dominance and submission, Master/slave, Caregiver/little, and even top and bottom. The definition is in the phrase: power and control are exchanged between partners with one...
Celebrating 200 Episodes by Answering Your Questions!
O…M…GEEEEEEEE, we reached 200 episodes of the podcast! Also, it’s nearly the holidays, so we gave ourselves a break. We asked for your questions — on social media AND during the weekly live stream....
Amo or Digit: Which is the Better Vibrator?
Disclosure: We received the Amo in exchange for an honest review. Also, affiliate links are included in this post. That means if you click a link and buy something, we make a small commission...
