Amo or Digit: Which is the Better Vibrator?
Disclosure: We received the Amo in exchange for an honest review. Also, affiliate links are included in this post. That means if you click a link and buy something, we make a small commission...
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We help kinksters like you have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. No matter how you define BDSM and no matter what kind of kinky relationship you want, we’re here to help!
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We are John Brownstone (the Dom) and Kayla Lords (the sub), a married D/s couple, sharing our thoughts, feelings, and experiences on this thing we call BDSM.
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Review and Giveaway: BDSM Contracts
If you’ve been following the podcast in recent episodes, you’ve likely heard us mention BDSMContracts.org. They sponsored a couple of episodes, but before we knew them, we linked to them as a potential resource...
Our Favorite Sex Toys: 2019 Edition
Long time listeners will know this topic right away — we’ve done it every holiday season for the past four years! We’re breaking down our favorites from all the sex toys we’ve tried this...
Easy Bedroom Bondage and ElectroPlay [The Stockroom Review]
Disclosure: We received these products from The Stockroom in exchange for an honest review. We are also affiliates, so if you click a link and make a purchase, we make a small commission. When...
Q&A: Why Am I Jealous of My Partner’s Other Relationship?
We don’t consider ourselves experts on open relationships or a polyamorous life. We’re constantly navigating it and learning new things. But jealousy is common in all relationships, not just polyamory. Consider it part of...
Answering Listener Questions: Vanilla vs D/s, Open Relationships, Trust
Happy holidays! We recorded the day before Thanksgiving, and the podcast goes live on Black Friday, so neither of us had the mental space to come up with a deep topic. So we answered...
