Adding Kink to Special Occasions
Thanks to Xetheriel aka X for this week’s topic. Let’s talk about how to incorporate kink into special occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, etc. In this episode: Thanks to X for this week’s topic. Spending...
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What We’re Still Learning About Each Other
This week, we share – with each other and y’all – things we’ve figured out about ourselves that has changed over time. Not much to “learn” from this one other than that if you’ve...
BDSM Reddit Response
We took an unscheduled break last week because Kayla got sick, but we’re back with a ranty BDSM Reddit response episode! In this episode: We’re on our new summer schedule. Subscribe to the Kinkery...
Q&A: Am I Asking for Too Much From My Dominant?
This couple has been going through it for the past few years and have spent the past year in couples counseling, but they’re not where they were before. The submissive partner worries they may...
Kinky Q&A
We’re back from an extra long break and we’re easing in by answering your kinky questions! In this episode: We’re starting our summer live stream schedule the first week of June – 7pm ET...
Q&A: What Do I Do as a Newly Single But Inexperienced Sub?
A submissive was introduced to BDSM by a former partner, but their relationship ended before any kinky exploration. Here’s the question: I met a Dom by accident on Tinder. He suggested I look into...
