What’s the Difference Between a Daddy and a Sir? LB032
John Brownstone and Kayla Lords team up again in episode 32. This week’s episode takes on a question from a listener: what is the difference between a Daddy and a Sir? In this episode:...
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Building and Maintaining Trust in a D/s Relationship LB031
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are back again for another long, winding conversation. Episode 31 focuses on trust – building it and maintaining it – in a D/s relationship. From the show: Trust issues...
Consent Is More Than Yes or No in BDSM LB030
John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords for episode 30 and this week’s topic is a big one: consent. Join them in a long and winding conversation about what consent means and look like in a...
Why Do Subs Have a Hard Time Accepting Help from Our Doms? LB029
This week, in episode 29, Kayla Lords hosts with a question: Why do subs have such a hard time accepting help from our Dominants? The question comes straight from a listener, and for once,...
How to Reconnect In Your D/s Relationship LB028
Kayla Lords hosts episode 28 and discusses the big and small ways you can reconnect in your D/s relationship whether you’ve been apart for a while or your routine has been thrown off for...
Maintaining Your D/s Connection Even When Apart LB027
This week, Kayla Lords is separated from John Brownstone by 600+ miles, and for six days, it’s back to the way things were in the long distance days. In episode 27, Kayla discusses how...
