Spankings LB059
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss spankings in episode 59. There’s much more to it than a hand and an ass. In this episode: Become our kinky patron at the $5 and up level,...
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Discipline, Punishment, and Consequences in D/s LB058
Hosted by Kayla Lords and John Brownstone, episode 58 of the Loving BDSM podcast focuses on discipline, punishment, and consequences for submissives in D/s relationships. In this episode: Buy my books and help send...
How to Hold Your Dominant Accountable
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 57 and tackle a topic that doesn’t get much attention – how exactly does a submissive hold their Dominant accountable for their bad behavior? In this episode:...
Using Labels to Figure Out Your Kink LB056
Kayla Lords hosts episode 56 and talks about labels, how they can help you figure yourself out, using them to find a community, and rejecting labels for different reasons. In this episode: You can...
When Your Kinky Wants and Needs Change LB055
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 55 and talk about how expectations, wants, and needs in your D/s relationship can change over time – and what to do when that happens. And they...
D/s Breakups LB054
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are back for episode 54 of the Loving BDSM podcast. This week’s topic is about D/s breakups and how to (hopefully) make them suck a little less. In this...
