5 Reasons to Join a Kinky Community

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  1. Sarah says:

    Hi, just heard this podcast and wanted to write to say thanks for the shout out to us old school people (as you can tell by my email). I got into the scene before internet, and it was hard. I appreciate your comments on it. However I have to say while in some ways it’s easier now…it’s hard in countries where folks have never even heard the word “munch” and fetlife isn’t exactly doing the right thing. I currently live in a country that thankfully is more open than my last….but it’s actually harder to find one person that is ok….without either going thru tons of fetlife people I wouldn’t normally talk to or going to bars and hoping for the best. Since I do neither I’m stuck. Anyway, this wasn’t meant to be a pity party :). It was meant to say thank you and for giving me things to meditate on and chat with a person or two I might be able to,chat with 🙂

    Ps– I can’t follow lovingbdsm on twitter unless I can hide that fact– is there a way to anonymously follow y’all?

    Thanks!!

    • Kayla Lords says:

      Wow, thanks for sharing that. It never occurred to me to imagine the difficulty in other countries. I know the U.K. is fairly open but that’s the extent of my knowledge.

      And as for Twitter, I don’t know of any other option than to create a fake profile. It can be a good place to connect if you create a “kinky” profile for yourself that’s not connected to anything else (like your real email or name).

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