Do All Submissives Go Commando?
Think of one of the sexiest things you can imagine in D/s. Does it involve a distinct lack of underwear? In public? It does for us, but for other kinksters, going commando is a...
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When the Submissive Leads the Transition from Vanilla to D/s LB096
In episode 96, we talk about transitioning your relationship from vanilla to kink when the submissive leads their Dominant partner – at least in the beginning as they’re learning. In this episode: Enter our...
We’re Celebrating Two Years of Podcasts with a Giveaway!
Update for August 21, 2017: Godemiche is sponsoring part of our giveaway and the Loving BDSM swag has been been bumped up from $25 to $50!!! Thank you Godemiche. We’ll discuss Godemiche, who they...
5 Ways Submissives Can Support Their Dominants Who Are New to D/s
Imagine the perfect world D/s scenario (from the perspective of at least one submissive I know): They meet a Dominant partner who knows exactly what they want, how to do all the kinky things,...
Kinky Titles Are Different for All Of Us
When you first figured out whether you were Dominant, submissive, or both (or none of the above), did you worry about what your title was? Did it matter to you? What about when you...
Aftercare LB095
This week for episode 95, the topic is aftercare – what it is, how to offer it, and how it’s different for everyone. In this episode: What is aftercare? How do you do it?...
