5 Real Ways to Prove Yourself in D/s Relationships
Are you a Dominant who believes your submissive has to “prove” their devotion through special tests you set? Or are you a submissive who has been asked to prove yourself with “tests” that make...
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Equality and Balance in D/s Relationships LB102
In episode 102, we’re talking about the idea of equality in a D/s relationship. We each come at this in different, but not opposite ways. Are the people in a D/s relationship equal or...
5 Signs of an Unhealthy Imbalance in Your D/s Relationship
We get asked – usually be people who are new to BDSM – about whether both partners in a D/s relationship are equal or not. If one partner has all the control, doesn’t that...
Book Review: As Kinky As You Wanna Be by Shanna Germain
The Loving BDSM Kinky Book Club read As Kinky As You Wanna Be by Shanna Germain for September (I know, we’re late!), an informative and fun read. It included a ton of information about living and exploring...
Understanding Bad Tapes in Your D/s Relationship LB101
This week we’re talking about something we’ve mentioned in dozens of episodes but never really focused on before – understanding bad tapes (yours and your partner’s) and how they impact your life and your...
