6 Things That Still Happen in Solid D/s Relationships
Show of hands — who’s looked at a D/s relationship (or any other flavor of relationship) and thought, “Hashtag relationship goals!” I know I have. It’s easy to imagine what life will be like...
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On Shaving and Hair Removal
Shaving, the current Kink of the Week topic, has so many connotations. Maybe you see the word and you think of shaving your pubic hair. Or you think of beards. When I see the...
Raising Sex Positive, Kink Friendly Kids LB134
This week, we’re going back to a topic we’ve touched on in the past — parenting and BDSM. Instead of talking about how to get your kink on when you’ve got kids, let’s talk...
3 Conversations We’ve Had With Our Kids about Sex and Kink
We all have our own comfort level when it comes to how much we want our children to know about our personal (sexual and kink) lives and what we believe should stay private. As...
Role Play vs. D/s Relationships
If you’ve listened to the podcast, you’ve probably heard me say (a lot!) that I’m no fan of role play, while John Brownstone’s got some seriously steamy fantasies that he wishes I’d try with...
What Does It Mean to Be Dominant or Submissive? LB133
This week’s episode is a big topic to wrap our arms around, and there’s no way we could cover every aspect of this in one episode. But it’s a start. We have very simple...
