BDSM Basics / Dominant / Submissives
by Kayla Lords · Published January 27, 2020 · Last modified May 4, 2021
Few topics get people heated like the different titles and labels we use in BDSM. As they’re inherently personal, kinksters often have strong opinions on using the “right” label. While words have literal definitions,...
D/s Relationships / Dominant / Submissives
by Kayla Lords · Published January 6, 2020 · Last modified January 5, 2020
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by Kayla Lords · Published November 15, 2019 · Last modified November 14, 2019
What it means to be independent is as unique to each of us as what it means to be submissive. But for anyone trying to win the affection, trust, and submission of a person...
by Kayla Lords · Published November 11, 2019 · Last modified November 8, 2019
For those who identify as submissive, think back to your first D/s relationship (or your early days of submission). Did you ever find yourself acting out of character, lacking patience and wanting to do...
Dominant / Episodes / Submissives
by Kayla Lords · Published November 8, 2019 · Last modified November 7, 2019
We get asked all the time what the difference between a dominant and submissive vs a top and bottom is. We’re not claiming to have all the answers, and labels are inherently personal. At...
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