Category: Submissives

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May 30, 2018

6 Red Flags From Submissives That Turn Off Dominants

Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, we turned this post into a mini-episode for the podcast that covers the same points below: Submissive Red Flags (minisode 13) We talk an awful...

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Contributors / Kink Community / LGBTQ+ / Submissives

March 5, 2018

They Both Were Subs: D/s in the Trans Community

Please help us welcome our first blog contributor to Loving BDSM, Julie Knispel. She brilliantly writes on the topic of trans women in the BDSM community and in D/s relationships. She takes on stereotypes...

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Dominant / Kink Community / Submissives

February 7, 2018

Do You Need a BDSM Mentor?

Long story short? Only if you want one. No one needs anything in BDSM other than consent, communication, and trust. The last of those develops once you have the first two. But some newbie...

Submissives

August 2, 2017

3 Ways to Use Positive Reinforcement in Your D/s Relationship

Punishment and discipline get a fair bit of attention in both D/s relationships as well as in BDSM. Scratch the surface of BDSM, and you’ll find plenty of arguments that discipline is better than...

Submissives

July 5, 2017

6 Things That Aren’t Topping from the Bottom

Ahhhh, topping from the bottom. That time honored tradition that either means a submissive has a lot to learn or one in dire need of reconfiguring their D/s relationship. Of course, unfortunately, sometimes the accusation...

Category: Submissives

6 Red Flags From Submissives That Turn Off Dominants

They Both Were Subs: D/s in the Trans Community

Do You Need a BDSM Mentor?

3 Ways to Use Positive Reinforcement in Your D/s Relationship

6 Things That Aren’t Topping from the Bottom

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