Sex Acts aren’t Automatically Dominant or Submissive
It’s the month of love and lust, so we’ve got sex on the brain. This topic comes from comments and questions we see all the time. “Can I do this sex act to my...
Category: Episodes
Holding Each Other Accountable in D/s Relationships
Accountability looks different for all of us, but ultimately, it’s making sure that everyone involved in your D/s relationship does what they say they will — and if they (or you) don’t, you deal...
Micromanagement vs 24/7 D/s
Let’s be very clear and set expectations up front — we’re not giving a lesson on how to add micromanagement to your power exchange. We’re not qualified to do that, although we know it’s...
Inclusivity, Identity, and the Principles of Your Kink Is Not My Kink
This week’s episode is a response to things we’ve seen online and things said to us — and it’s our line in the sand and our flag in the ground. The Loving BDSM community...
Stalled Plans, Disappointment, and Moving Forward
Everyone goes through times when things don’t go according to plan, from vanilla life to your kinky fuckery. Disappointment is universal, but it’s what we do next and how we think about it that...
